Sunday, September 20, 2009

To tell or not to tell, that is the question!

Here we are 10 weeks and 6 days along. I am so excited that we have made it this far! Most of the fears I was having at the beginning are gone, most. I really want to shout to the world that we are going to be having our first child but when is the right time to tell and how do you tell people? Who do you tell personally and who do you let others tell? There are a couple of people that don't know that I really want to tell myself but other then that I am just not sure. I don't want to offend anyone by not telling them personally but at the same time this news is about us not them so why do we have to make sure we tell certain people ourselves. 

When it comes to family I think we are going to leave it in the hands of our parents, both mothers have been very impatiently waiting to tell the world (one more understanding then the other) so I am sure they will be delighted to spread the news. 

One of M's cousins is getting married next weekend so that again is something we have to take into consideration. We most definitely do not want to take anything away from such a special time in there lives but at the same time I am ready to tell now and I am a bit, maybe it's these raging hormones, irritated that my news has to take a back seat to hers. I did not time it so that we would be ready to tell just when she is about to get married. I am done hiding it from people! I want to tell now!

I guess deep down inside I know that waiting a little while longer is the right thing to do for us and for M's cousin I am just ready now and I am so excited!

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